Life as we know it
Life as we know it
As I was thinking about
coming up with an idea to write about something inspirational, I thought, why
not write about us? “Us” as in, the 20 something people lost in this rat race
for acquiring a spot in the world and trying hard not to get weeded out by
Darwin’s theory of survival of the fittest. Most of us are stuck in this eternal
abyss of being successful, completing certain degrees, getting placed at a
decent company. And when those things are not conquering our minds, we have the
ghosts of a failed relation or a miserable incident that was enough to inflict
a scar deep enough to make us stay awake till ungodly hours. We spend hours
trying to figure out what went wrong among the whirlwind of heartbreak and
tears and try to think about those situations in various perspectives that
might have led to a different ending. But all the ranting seems useful because
the time as gone by and made us stronger. We may still have forgiving and soft
hearts but in the end we have to forget and forgive and go on.
In this race for being
the best it is hard to find someone who will stick to you no matter what and
people spend most of their lives searching for that special one. Some may find
them while some have to stay contented with themselves. This phase of life is
no less than a roller coaster and we have experienced all kinds of emotions thanks
to all those American sitcoms which gave us false hopes and high aspirations.
These have become our unwritten guidelines. The existence of the perfect person
and the perfect life seems like a distant dream. False people and fake
friendships may takes us down. But on the contrary we have a bunch of stuffs
that make the journey of something twenty going on worthwhile. The world might
not be our oyster but we sure make it memorable. We are definitely a bunch of
crazy and adventurous millennial folks driven by the heart than the brain. And
maybe that makes us more vulnerable and emotional. But amongst these tussle of
living and surviving we have made our own worlds where we are able to cope up
with the curses of anxiety and depression. Hoping for a sunny day in a gloomy
weather is what we have learned to preach when the times are tough. Just like
the age old motto, we have learned to hold on to the
beautiful memories that shaped us. Even when we are surrounded by deceit,
suspicion and hatred we have known how to rise like a phoenix from the ashes
and with time the reward of good times come to us in the most unexpected manner
bringing us back on the right track of life. So all the people out there having
a hard time coping with life, hold on, it gets better and brighter because
there is a better world above this place full of hatred and jealousy. And to
all those who think that life has reached a dead end, go out, get yourself some
sunshine, have a little fun, buy an ice cream or get a tattoo, enjoy your twenties
because that’s what makes this phase so special.
Srimoyee Chowdhury
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